Guides
Guides for couples, bulls and cuckolds
Plain-English guides to the cuckold lifestyle, with sources. New guides are added here as they are written.
All guides
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- What is cuckolding?
A plain-English primer: the vocabulary, the history of the word and how common the fantasy is.
- How to tell your wife you want to be a cuckold
A step-by-step approach to the conversation, including what to say and what to do if she says no.
- Finding a bull you can trust, safely
The rules to agree, where couples look, how to vet a man, and a safe first meeting.
- Your first cleanup: what to expect
An honest look at the first cleanup, the mood afterwards and how to stay healthy.